Self Perception

Our self-perception is never going to be equal to our actual character, personality or aesthetic; but only greater than or less than. The observers will either see an individual as greater or less than the reality and it is the interaction of the observers and the individual that create the individuals average self-perception. Self-perception is then determined, categorically, by the sum of the observers' opinions which can either be greater or less than the individual's actually worth, but is rarely, if ever, equal to this value. It is when the individual locates someone who's blind non-objectivity radiates stronger than the thoughts of the sum of the other observers, that the individual evaluates self-perception differently than the average suggests. Only love or hate can be responsible for such non-objectivity and it is the sum of these impactful and unique interactions that pulls self-perception to one pole or the other.